Question of the day

which u will choose ?
" to love or being love? "
so far the answers that i get 98% are all choosing BEING love, there's only the odd one me and wan ting choose TO love
Ya, not to say we are odd and weird, we are just enjoying the feeling of loving someone that we like; we enjoy the progress of putting more effort and time onto somebody that we love.
I'd been trying both of this situation before To love and Being love in the past, and surprisingly i like the one which is TO love instead of BEING love. * I am so cheap * hahaha I dont care man!!!
Last night, had a nice chatting with one of my long lost friend, ChanSP.
He 1st asked me do I miss my ex that's how the conversation continue
Chan: not to say sumthin bad...love is terrible...as owiz
Tan: very terrible in some particular way
Chan: no 1 got d right to be claimed as mr right or mrs right
Tan: just follow the flow, see how it goes
Chan: but then dun take it too serious, the most suffer wan is sendiri
Tan: i ask u one question, to love and being love which u will choose
Chan: BEING!!! im selfish wan
Tan: i choose TO love
Chan: to love...u love to risk huh?adventurous girl! but the pain u gonna suffer is more than d effort u had paid woh, tat meh? bo tat wan!!!
the conclusion of the conversation above, Sp i wana said that : there's not "tat" or "bo tat" u cannot count on everything u pay, cannot count on how much effort u gives out when the time ur in love, I tell u, u are willingly to do anything ler. If is a relationship thats keep on counting then might as well just forget about it and move on, why wasting ur time to count?? Am i right or am I wrong? Frankly, to love sometime really very suffer esp. when u love someone that dont love u or u dont know wheter he/she like u as well so the feeling of keep on guessing wheter he/she likes or dont like Woahhh that kind of feeling can really kill, lol
hmmm...well this is a just a lil. sharing =) u can comment but no offence please thanks alot hahahaha